I went to bed thinking dh was just not onboard with adopting...I woke up to him TOTALLY EXCITED! He called and talked to one social worker who gave us the number of one that knew more. It's not in the same state and we do not have a current homestudy...could be sticky. BUT I think if it's meant to be it will happen. If not dh wants to get a homestudy done anyway for possible future situations.